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How to Reverse-Engineer Your Goals
The R.O.O.T.E.D. Goal Setting System helps you to identify and reverse-engineer essentialist goals that bridge the gap between the future you want and the life you’re living right now.
Sustainable, Life-Giving Goals Are:
- Rooted in your core calling
- Organically growing out of your context
- Outlined for clarity (we're talking about part 2 in this post)
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Tailored to your lifestyle
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Etched into your memory
- Developed by Providence
Last week, we talked about why clarity is QUEEN if you want to set a strong goal, and discussed how to get more clarity about what you want.
This week, we’ll be diving into the mechanics of reverse-engineering.
How to Outline Your Goals for Clarity
The R.O.O.T.E.D. Goal Setting System helps you to identify and reverse-engineer essentialist goals that bridge the gap between the future you want and the life you’re living right now.
Sustainable, Life-Giving Goals Are:
- Rooted in your core calling
- Organically growing out of your context
- Outlined for clarity (what we're talking about in this post)
-
Tailored to your lifestyle
-
Etched into your memory
- Developed by Providence
Last week, we worked through finding the overlap between your core calling goals (your beckoning future), your starting point, and your deepest long-term priorities. It was in this intersection that we found goals that were organically growing out of your context—goals that make sense for you, where you are, today, and that act as a bridge to help you get to the next level.
This week, we’ll be talking about how to outline ("reverse-engineer") your goal for clarity.
How to Set Goals That Are Organically Growing Out of Your Context
The R.O.O.T.E.D. Goal Setting System helps you to identify and reverse-engineer essentialist goals that bridge the gap between the future you want and the life you’re living right now.
Sustainable, Life-Giving Goals Are:
- Rooted in your core calling
- Organically growing out of your context (what we're talking about in this post)
- Outlined for clarity (part 1 & part 2)
-
Tailored to your lifestyle
-
Etched into your memory
- Developed by Providence
Last week, we talked about how to start uncovering the soil of your core calling. Core calling goals resonate deeply, compel you to follow-through on them, and start bearing fruit immediately. The soil of your core calling forms a rich environment for setting sustainable, healthy goals that actually energize you.
This week, we’ll be getting super practical.
How to Set Goals That Are Rooted in Your Core Calling
At the start of this year, we wrote a post about how the R.O.O.T.E.D. Goal Setting System can be a game-changer for how you set goals this year. Over the next couple weeks, we are going to dive into each aspect of this goal setting system. If you missed that first post, take a minute to go read it now!
The R.O.O.T.E.D. system helps you to identify and reverse-engineer relevant, strong, essentialist goals that will help you bridge the gap between those big and important things that you know matter most and the life you’re living right now.
Sustainable, Life-Giving Goals Are:
- Rooted in your core calling
- Organically growing out of your context
- Outlined for clarity
- Tailored to your lifestyle
- Etched into your memory
- Developed by Providence
I have to admit—as thrilling as the first phrase in the acronym may be (‘Rooted in your core calling’), it’s also pretty intimidating.
How to Use a Planner When You Don’t Know How to Plan
Do you want to start using a planner to make sense of your time management, but you feel intimidated by the actual process of planning? Or perhaps you were an organizational rockstar at one point, but it feels like your wherewithal has flown the coop?
You’re not alone.
Most women have (or currently do) struggle with those same feelings. Even the ladies at Team Evergreen are intimately acquainted with them!
Taking a Break From Your Planner
Your planner is a hub for your brain.
But is there ever a right time to take a break from your planner?
From the hearts of three fellow busy women, let us offer you some solace with a resounding YES.
The planner is absolutely incredible for charting out rhythms, decluttering your mind, storing tasks and reminders, housing the flexible structures you want to build into your days, providing real-life context for your goals and plans, and helping you get laser-focused on the things that matter most in just minutes.
But sometimes life happens in such a way that trying to dive into our planners feels heavy, out-of-context, or forced.
Creating Intention Lists
One of the main benefits of using a planner on a daily basis is the resulting automation of thought processes.
Automating thought processes can do so much to free up mental bandwidth and reduce decision fatigue (did you know that was a thing?!).
On our day spreads, we have our regular prompts which lead you through a set of intention-strengthening exercises: "What are your top targets for the day? What are you thankful for? What are your seasonal goals and why are they so important?" etc.
But there's so much space in your planner system to make it serve you in unique and powerful ways. One of the ways to automate your own, personal thought processes is to develop a series of "Intention Lists."
How to Stop Wasting Time on Screens
Last week, we asked this question:
What are the most overwhelming areas of my life? If I were proactive in these areas (instead of operating in a default, reactionary state), how could I clear the excess and focus on what matters most?
In this post, we're going to get really practical and tactical.
Understanding the (Designed) Problem
I used to think my life was overwhelming by default, and that I simply didn't have enough time and mental energy to do everything I believed I was called to do. I didn't sit around and watch TV, and I'd even turned all of the notifications off on my phone, but I still found the days to be far too short.
How to Stop Wasting Time by Taking a Second to THINK
Last week, we wrote about the importance of having the proper perspective when it comes to valuing time. If you haven't had a chance, it's worth reading right now.
For many of us, time-wasting doesn't look like one would expect. We're not laying around on the couch all day every day, eating Cheetos and watching reruns. We're actually really busy—always going, doing, hustling, and racing from one thing to the other. That's how we feel, anyway, and the result all too often does look like Cheetos-and-reruns-on-the-couch for a lot longer than we think is healthy, because we feel too worn out to do anything else with our pockets of free time.
It's the typical song and dance of our busy culture.
But what if a large amount of our busy-ness itself is the drain on our time?
How to Stop Wasting Time: Perspective
Stop for just a second and ask yourself: what is a week of your life actually worth?
We only have 4,452 weeks from the moment we're born until our 85th birthday (if we're given that many years).
Just...let that sink in. We have fewer than 5k weeks in an entire (generous) lifespan, and yet, sometimes we just let a "bad" or "off" week (or several) slip away without seriously evaluating underlying causes and lessons we could be learning.
Now, don't misunderstand: sometimes a week that's way more heavy on rest, fun, or flexibility is needed. Sometimes, crises (internal and external) endow a week with a heavenly purpose that we cannot immediately grasp from our point of view in the moment.
How to Get Back Up Again
"Uh oh, Elizabeth, be careful. You're sloshing it out."
My four year old stops her stirring for a second, processing my words. She sees where a small puddle of batter is now splatted on the counter top. She adjusts her grip, and then begins to mix again, slower this time.
"It's okay, Mom." She says in a confident tone. Then under her breath, more to herself than to me, "It's all a part of learning."
I'm pretty sure she got that phrase from Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, and I'm completely in love with it.
Understanding Social Energy & Communication Styles
Last week, we wrote about productivity personalities, how to feed strengths and compensate for weaknesses, and how these ideas have played out in our Evergreen Team dynamics. In this post, we're going to look at social energy and communication styles, and the ways doing all this work around who you are and who you're working with can help you work more compassionately and productively as an individual and on a team.
Social Energy
Way more popular than productivity personalities, is diving into the concept of being "introverted" vs "extroverted."